We left Japan, flying over the friendship festival at Yokota
Air Base. Looking out at the Americans and Japanese crowded together to eat,
walk, see cool planes and purchase or sell items. The base groups make a lot of
money from this event each year. It’s a big deal. I however, have never
attended! I usually avoid it because I hear how crowded it gets. And there was
a year or two it did not happen because of Covid 19 precautions.
This year I wanted to attend just to say I did. My family
was staying in the TLF tower but we still had our blue vehicle to get us
around. I was told to attend the event first thing in the morning because the Japanese
are not allowed on at first. Sadly, it was raining that morning. Walking around
the flight line in the rain did not sound fun. So, I did not go.
It wasn’t raining when we flew away though. We were so happy
to be leaving Japan. Moving on! Flying toward our families. Flying toward our final
military home. Flying toward slight, welcomed, changes in life. I don’t want to
work with children the next three years but I do want to have a part time job. I
don’t want to be a keyspouse. I do want to stay active in the church and serve
within the church. I would like Luke to learn to drive and help drive himself
and the other kids around within the next year.
I do want my children to find friends they connect with,
within the church. They don’t usually do. This makes it hard for me as a parent
because their friends can be bad influences.
The flight was great. There was almost zero turbulence. The
children were easy and so was the flight.
We stayed one night in Seattle. We got on a shuttle from the
airport to the hotel but the shuttle drove us to another pick up spot at the
airport. That is when Sterling realized Tiberias had left his backpack at the
last stop! Sterling got off the bus and went quickly back to retrieve it. He
took too long though and the bus driver left him. At the Hotel I scolded Ty for
being careless. We hopped off the shuttle and it left to go back for Sterling.
Then, I realized Athena left her stuff on the bus! Immediately after hearing me
scold Ty for leaving his stuff behind! Luckily, the shuttle picked up Ster and
I messaged him about it. He was able to bring it off the shuttle with him.
We walked down the street from our hotel to a pizza shop and
took pizza back for dinner. The pizza was delicious! We had a fun night in the
hotel despite there not being a pool to swim in. We had free breakfast the next
morning and left early on the shuttle for the airport.
We stayed in Provo where Sterling worked on our recently purchased
(used) van. My birthday arrived shortly after entering America. It happened to
be the same day Ster chose for Stupid Movie Night with his siblings. So we
celebrated my birthday too.
I never did like Stupid Movie Night, lol. But we had a great time. I made a
Stitch themed cake. Mom thought I was making way too much cake…but the design
called for it.
Hannah gave me a water bottle. I had been looking to buy a
new one and she didn’t even know this fact. I received a Stitch shirt, stickers
for the water bottle, an adorable koala journal, fun earrings and butterflies
for my hair.
We allowed Luke to watch Cocaine Bear with us. It turned out
to be more of a horror film than I expected! I thought it was going to be a
comedy.
Tiberias was very unhappy that Luke was able to watch it and he wasn’t. He
really wanted to see the film. And he feels that if Luke is old enough to watch
something, Ty is also. I don’t see it that way.
Nephi came over too. We watched Yoga Hosers, which I picked.
It’s a stupid movie I had been wanting to see for a while. I probably wont ever
watch it again though. I’m not into stupid movies.
Sterling and I have been able to play pickleball a few
times. We discovered that there are free outdoor courts pickleball specific in
the Provo area! And in Idaho too when we visited Jon’s family.
After Idaho we were back in Provo just a day before driving
down to Logandale to visit my parents. We went to the reservoir and met up with
Crystal Houston (whom I went to high school with even though she was in a grade
below me) and her family. We had a great time. There was swimming and kayaking.
We watched a horse pull a wakeboarder across the water. The horse ran along the
beach and the wakeboarder was in the water holding onto a rope.
We had such a great stay there! Nephi came down, Florencio, Eliza and Maddie
came too.
Saturday was Abigail Starnes’ baptism in Parowan. So we all went there for the
day. I gave a great talk about the holy ghost at the baptism. When arrived we
saw that it was a stake baptism. We did now know that prior! I wasn’t nervous
really. But realized I didn’t have my talk! Where was it? Where was it? I
searched my memory and saw myself place it inside Abigail’s present. A book. To
keep it safe and make sure I didn’t leave it behind. Then in my memory I saw
myself wrap that book. The talk was still inside! SO I had to open her present
to retrieve it! Haha
After the baptism we took pictures outside the church. Families
and groups etc.
We went to Alissa’s house for lunch. Justin’s parents and brother were there as
well. Sub sandwiches were served. With chips and soda.
Athena got reacquainted with her cousins. Specifically Abigail and Jasmine.
Cakes were baked then Jasmine and Athena decorated them together. We celebrated
Jason and Abigail’s birthdays and
Jasmine’s baptism. Gifts were given to all of those children. To avoid James
being the only Starnes child not to receive a gift Mom and Eliza gave him gifts
too.
I gave fun books to Jasmine, Abigail and Jason. Because I am
the storytime youtube aunt. Jason
received a touch and feel book to learn the ABCs. Abigail received a unicorn
fantasy book. Jasmine received one on faith which was not long or boring and
had great illustrations. I wrote a special note to her inside. I also gave Alissa
the talk I had prepared and printed.
Justin’s family didn’t stay for dinner but at dinner we went
to a diner in town. That was fun. And we almost filled the diner with our party.
At the end we said goodbyes. Those of us who don’t live in Parowan were going back
to Dad’s house.
Jasmine wanted Athena to sleep over but it made more sense for Jasmine to come
stay at Grandma’s house. Jasmine coming turned into Abigail also coming and
then…James too. Alissa packed their sleepover bags and sent them with us.
We went to the Cedar City temple to see that on our way back to Logandale.
Alissa and Justin had just their toddler Jason for the night. And they rested.
They had to recover from the excitement.
Alissa’s kids hadn’t been to my parents house in a while.
They were being reminded of what it was like and the fact that they have a cat!
They had a really fun day and night. The next day was Sunday. Alissa’s kids
stayed home with their grandpa. Nephi slept in and attended a late sacrament
meeting. The rest of us went to mom’s sacrament meeting at 9am.
Florencio drove back to AZ alone. Mom promised to drive Eliza
and Maddie to AZ on Friday so she could spend more time with my family.
Alissa and Jason came later that day. She had cut my parents
out of her family’s life two times now, I believe. And only barely allowed them
back in, in time for the baptism.
We went on a walk to find some horses and feed them. I then
learned that this was not an approved activity by the owners but something dad
does anyway. Oooppps. It was really fun though. I wont be surprised if a sign
doesn’t show up now on their gate “Don’t feed the horses.” Lol
Monday we all went to Mesquite to swim at the rec center. It’s nice that my kids are old enough and can
swim well enough that I don’t have to be with them or follow them around. But
James, near the time we left the pool, took off his life jacket and went off
the diving board. He didn’t swim well enough and had to be rescued by the
lifeguard. He was shooken up. Most of us did not witness the event but only
heard about it in a whisper from Alissa later at the diner. We went to Peggy’s
diner for dinner just after swimming.
We ordered food and ice cream! That was fun. Nephi said goodbye and went back to
Spanish Fork. Alissa said goodbye and
took her kids home to Parowan.
We had fun at the grandparents house Tuesday and Wednesday
also. Tuesday the kids, Eliza and I went to Crystal’s house. Athena caught a
chicken and played with their great danes (one being a runt and one being a
puppy). Luke went with Topher to hang out with his friends. Luke had done this
during the first night at the reservoir. Went with Topher to meet his friends
and have a game night/hang night. The way I used to do with my group of friends
in high school. Topher said his friends were awesome and friendly and
wholesome. Luke had such a great time and spent more events with them while we
stayed in Logandale. I hope this showed Luke how good friends can be and how
great it is to have friends in the church! Maybe it will influence his friend
making decisions at Warner Robins.
Sterling went to
Vegas to put us on the housing list. He had to go to the nearest military base
(Nellis) because his military online access wasn’t working! He brought back
pizza for dinner.
Wednesday The kids went back to the Houston house. Ster,
Eliza, Mom and I went to the thrift shops in Overton. Then we got lunch at the
diner there. We picked up the kids and went back to the house. We went to the
reservoir one more time. Dad was recording a youtube Come Follow Me video so he
stayed home to do that. We had a great evening even though it had cooled off.
It wasn’t a hot day! Luke doesn’t like to swim anymore but I made him take the
kayak out for one spin. He went around a tree and came back to the land and was
done.
When we returned to the house dad was still recording. So we
all went to the basement to keep the noise away from his microphone. We watched
the Never Ending Story and ate ice cream. While we all took turns one at a time
taking a shower in the basement shower. That was fun! The kids enjoyed the
movie! But Sterling, despite realizing he has never actually watched the film
before, chose not to watch. He went upstairs to play a video game.
We said goodbye to my
parents Wednesday night. They had to leave early Thurs for an appointment in
Vegas. We got up at 7am and left at 8am. We had to wake Eliza to say goodbye.
Maddie remained asleep.
We drove up to St George and stopped to look at a truck
Sterling saw online at a dealership. We were actually at the wrong location and
it took a while to figure that out. Sterling’s phone internet wasn’t working so
he couldn’t check. But eventually we found the right dealership and the truck!
And it was actually pretty great. We went for a test drive together and decided
this was the truck. Sterling would buy it! He really was hoping to find a truck
before going to Georgia and it wasn’t looking promising. But then, we found the
one. I left Sterling there to do the paperwork and drive the truck away.
I drove the kids to Parowan to meet Alissa at her house. I
had some things to drop off to her. Athena and the girls were happy for a
chance to play together again!
They were pretending to be dogs fighting and wrestling but I saw it…Athena
could be a wrestler in school! She is strong enough and built for it. She loves
wrestling because he daddy taught her to wrestle and fight. She didn’t seem to
care for the idea when I said it but I have a plan. I will show her. When we
get to Georgia I will find out if one of the schools has a wrestling team and
take Athena to watch one match. Let her experience seeing the sport so that if
she gets a chance to join a team she will know if she wants to try or not.
Sterling met us at Alissa’s then we said goodbye to Alissa’s
family. We drove two cars but stayed together the rest of the drive.
In Provo we arrived with just twenty minutes to spare. We
had a dinner date with Matt and Maria at Mom’s house at 5pm. Mom made cheesy
potato soup with vegetables and bread rolls. We were able to visit with them
and that was nice. Maria had also brought with her the two pairs of prescription
glasses Ty had picked out at her store a week or so prior. She works at a prescription
store in Orem.
Friday we went swimming at the Provo Rec center at 11am.
Simone brought her kids. Hannah brought hers. Mom came too. Luke stayed home
though. Since, he doesn’t like swimming anymore.
Simone and her kids hung out with us at Dad’s house until it
was time to go to Leatherbys. The long awaited event! Everyone came! Aubrianne
and some of her kids (Rosie and Jimmy) didn’t make it. Stewart also missed out.
But nobody else was willing to miss this! We eat like kings and queens when we
go to Leatherbys!
Athena and Maddie and Chloe are all good friends! But Athena
sat with just Maddie this time.
Trevor and Travis with their kids came to Dad’s house after
Leatherbys.
Saturday morning was free fishing day! Athena was excited to
get to go fishing. Ty and Luke were forced to go. I stayed home to write blog
entries, work out and catch up on stuff.